Interview with the Dissonant Dialogues Podcast

You can watch the video below, or visit it directly on YouTube here.

In this deeply powerful conversation, Emily and Claire—co-hosts of the Dissonant Dialogues podcast—share their personal stories of surviving sexual abuse and the long road toward healing and advocacy.

Emily speaks candidly about the manipulation, fear, and isolation she endured, as well as the empowering steps she took to reclaim her voice and report the abuse. Claire, an advocate for trauma recovery within religious communities, discusses the long-term impact of being groomed in a fundamentalist evangelical environment. She reflects on the emotional abuse, coercion, and self-blame that shaped her adolescence, and how Emily’s courage inspired her to begin sharing her own story publicly.

In this interview, topics we discussed include:

  • The subtle and strategic patterns of grooming
  • The psychological aftermath of abuse
  • The intersection of purity culture, religion, and power dynamics
  • How institutions often fail survivors
  • The importance of speaking out and building community support
  • Using podcasting and advocacy to reclaim power and help others

This conversation is an eye-opening, heartfelt exploration of resilience, healing, and the importance of creating safer spaces in both the classical music world and faith-based communities.

Avery Neal, PhD is a practicing psychotherapist, international author and speaker. In 2012 she opened Women’s Therapy Clinic, which offers psychiatric and counseling support to women. She specializes in depression and anxiety at all stages in a woman’s life.

Dr. Neal is the author of, If He’s So Great, Why Do I Feel So Bad?: Recognizing and Overcoming Subtle Abuse, which has been translated and published in twelve languages. Her articles and interviews have been published by Oprah.com, American Counseling Association, Counseling Today, BookTrib, Best Self Magazine, Hitched Magazine, Bustle, POPSUGAR and PKWY Magazine, and her courses have been taken by over 18,000 people worldwide. The International Association of HealthCare Professionals nominated her as one of the top psychologists in Houston.

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